It is an all too common occurrence in the world today that we as a society tend to identify people by their behaviours and by what they do, and in that we lose sight of the awesome amazing lovable being at the core of every person.

People can tend to become identified (or identify others) with the ‘good’ roles and behaviour patterns, such as being a good mum, a good friend, a good student, a good son, daughter, sibling, a good employee, a good X, Y & Z. But how does that person feel when their ‘good’ role is challenged … the good mother is challenged by her child melting down in public or by a comment or feedback which is perceived as an attack. The simple fact is that anxiety levels rise and thus deterioration of behaviour and mental wellness is inevitable.

People can also tend to be identified (or identify others) by the perceived ‘bad’ of their choices … that badly behaved person, bad parenting, the bad student or words and labels to that effect.

Note: Neither ‘good’ or ‘bad’ are part of the language endorsed at Fabic where people are never identified by their behaviours and/or labels.

This presentation offers the importance of building foundations of knowing people by the awesome, amazing lovable being they innately are, while bringing understanding to the message that:

Sometimes what people do is thumbs up, and sometimes what people do is thumbs down, but at the core of every single person is ALWAYS an awesome amazing lovable being.

Presented by: Tanya Curtis
Fabic Behaviour Specialist and Counsellor